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Name: Y.
Country: South Korea
Metro: Seoul
Birthday: 5/28/1979
Gender: Female


Interests: The Simple Things - coffee in cute cafes, reading mindless magazines, shopping for Baby and me *^^*
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Sunday, November 01, 2009

What we did on 10/31 ~~~

My BIL finally got hitched!  (On Halloween...altho no one really cares in Korea)

Lord oh lord was it a 'jung-shin-up-suh' day (hectic...w/ a capital H) !!!

I dunno why, but Korean weddings are so complicated...and if u have them in a 'wedding hall' it multiplies the 'chaos' by 100. Add to that the horrible weather (raining cats and dogs)...and there u have it~

Whew~ I'm just glad it's over.  And thankful we have no more 'big' family events for a loooong time!  

My hubby was so busy greeting guests, working the front desk (accepting gift $), taking care of family, etc...that eventho he brought his DSLR...he  was only able to take a handful of pictures   I was bummed about that because it's very few and far between that i take the time to get dolled-up.  Now i only have 3-4 pics w/ my kids and family of that day.  (( Note to SELF - No matter how crazy it is...always make sure u leave w/ LOTS of pics from a special occassion!)  Really....pictures are the only things that last ~  And they're the only 'things' u are 'left' with.  Come to think of it...i don't even have any pics of Theo...cause he was asleep most of the time : (

Anyway, here are a few that i can share...

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(With Devin...theo was asleep in his stroller~)

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(My parents flew in from NC to be w/ Me and the kids.  Long story short...i was 1. worried that i'd get sick from chasing after both kids during the whole ceremony (mohm-sal) and 2. Hubby is on a business trip for a week in Beijing and i've neeeever been alone w/ both kids before.  So after a few 'whiny' phone calls to the folks...out of the goodness of their hearts...they booked a flight...and here they are!  Parents are the best, aren't they? (i'm talkin' about chinjung's NOT she-daeks/inlaws).  This is also part of the reason i've been so busy lately and neglected my xanga~)

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(My hair&makeup...i loved it!  i got a 출장 artist...they come to your home...to come to our place to primp me for the event.  i think the most important thing when it comes to these kinds of things...is to have a strong opinion/idea about 'what it is' that u want.  i showed her several pics (research)...and tada...i got exactly what i was hoping for~  What do u guys think???)

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(My hanbok.  A very traditional 'hyung-nim' look...hehe~  I picked every detail.  It's harder than one would think.  You wouldn't believe how many red's and navy's there are to choose from!  AT first i didn't know if i wanted to go 'traditional' OR 'fusion'...but after some research...i thought that this look was best ^^ )

Hope everyone had a great Halloween as well !

 

 


Wednesday, October 21, 2009

RESET button !

Ever have one of those days???....where ur child is having a major break-down...ur getting so stressed out...and contemplating whether being a SAHM is really right for you?

Well, one of my best friends just sent me a link to a Blog she follows...and it really hit the nail on the head for me.  One of those 'Ah Ha' moments!  hehe~  Just thought i'd share as well !

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Reset
 
from How Do You Do It?

Thanks HDYDI Readers.  Because of you, I can write this down and HOPEFULLY I’ll finally, FINALLY remember it.  You don’t know how many times I’ve smacked myself in the head a la “Shoulda hadda V8″  as I’m reminded of this tip.
 
So read and learn, peeps.  Don’t be me.  Smacking yourself while driving is just not safe.
 
OK.  Today.  The morning naps were over and Sarah was clamoring for her 18th snack of the day.  “Not plain old raisins, Ma, YOGURT COVERED RAISINS!”
 
“YOGURT COVERED RAISINS!”
 
“YOGURT COVERED RAISINS, B$#%H!”
 
We were housebound yesterday because of the leftover typhoon that hit the west coast and I guess I was still feeling the after effects of early onset cabin fever, because I was seriously over it.  Motherhood, that is.  I was just languishing about in a sea of toys and half crushed Kix, watching Matthew try to smash his sippy cup through the window and listening to Sarah screech about the raisins.  I was frozen in a hellacious moment and hating life.  I even got that, “Should I be a SAHM?” feeling.  (Don’t worry, I shook that off with a quickness.)
 
I had put a rain cover for the BOB on hold at our local REI, and since I couldn’t walk to the grocery store as planned because of the DOWNPOUR, I figured this was as good a time as any to go pick it up.
Two seconds into the car ride all was well with the world.  They were singing and laughing and dancing in their carseats and I was singing and laughing and dancing right along with them.  I was Happy Mom again!
This is where the self-smackdown came in.  The Reset Button!  Duh.  Whether it’s a major tantrum or just midday doldrums, changing things up with a walk, or a trip the backyard, or a ride in the car will make all the difference in the world.  Like so many other parenting tips, this one seems pretty damn obvious, but in the moment?  It’s anything but.  I just find it so easy to get sucked into the whinyness, the discontent and the overall crankiness and it’s like quicksand.  So….Hard….To…Get….Out….
 
I think I need to put up post-its all over the house that say “Reset Button”  or even better, “Change it up, Dummy!”  because I can never seem to remember!  It’s usually only out of desperation that I actually implement a change, not out of smart parenting.
 
It happened again later, too.  We’re not really sure what caused Sarah’s evening tantrum aside from a boycotted afternoon nap, but she screamed for a good 20 minutes.  Actually it might have been longer, but I went for a run.  My husband said he changed her diaper and put her in the crib for a good ole’ fashioned cage match with her brother and she was a new person.  Giggling like you wouldn’t believe and generally acting like nothing had happened.
 
RESET!  Remember it, friends.
 
 


Friday, October 16, 2009

Theo's baby class!

Theo's been attending the 문화센터 for a while now (it's called a Cultural center = sorta like a Community center that offers various classes at great rates).

I LOVE it~

Not only does this place offer baby classes, they offer classes for kids of all ages (after school), and for adults.  I can't wait for Theo to go to preschool...so i can take cooking/baking,art, flower arrangement, sewing, dancing lessons!!!

Anyway, for the Fall session, we're taking a class called Teeni-teeni kids? or something like that : )  The teacher is a male (a first for us) but he's sooo great w/ the kids...AND he's funny too.  The kids get to learn about a certain subject and get a work-out all at the same time.  It's great for kids that are really physically active!

Anyway, so on this particular day, the kids learned about a korean folktale called 은독기,금독기 (Silver ax, Gold ax).  All the kids are carrying a 지개 (item used to carry gathered wood) and placing the wood in the Oven.  keke~  Everything is made out of sponge/styrofoam!

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Can't leave w/o sharing a pic of my Big baby Devin~ Goofing around in his dongseng's pack-n-play (man, we sure are getting our $'s worth outta that thing).  And D. taking a pic next to the big icecream cone.  Jeez, this kid is an ice-cream-killer!  he LOVES ice cream!

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Oh and this is 고아라 (Ara Ko).  she's a young actress that was shooting a scene for her recent MBC drama = 맨땅에헤딩 .  This is right next to our apt. building~

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Hope everyone has a great weekend!

 


Tuesday, October 06, 2009

Whoa~ have i been MIA...or what?!

 Man...this past month has been craaaaazy!

I've been meaning to update on my flight back to korea...but so much has gone on since we got back...this past month just seems like it has flown by.  I've missed u guys (BUT...i have been reading your posts...and commenting when i can)!

So...what's been going on w/ us lately???

1.  It took us a good 2 weeks to 'naturally' get over the jetlag.  I find it takes babies 2 weeks to adjust to the time difference on their own (from lots of experience w/ international flights).  I could adjust to the time diff. on my own, but what would be the point...when i'm really on 'baby' time and have to move according to 'that' clock.  It's just best not to mess w/ nature on this one.  Theo took about 2 weeks.  And Devin took just 1 week!

2.  Devin went right back to his preschool after 1 week of staying at home bored to death (and getting over jetlag).  Since we went back to the same school, same teacher, same class, and same friends...there was no adjustment there : )  BTW, last year his schedule was 9-2:30pm...and this year it's 9:30-3:50pm.  However...per his own request...D's been going to 종일반/all day class since last week (mainly for the Moms that work)...they stay a lil later than the reg. kids.  I'm really like Hitler when it comes to naps and children getting over tired...so i like it that D. came home earlier.  But for some reason, for the past couple of weeks, he's been begging us to attend the 종일반...so after some thought and discussion we decided to agree...but will watch him closely to make sure he's not too tired.  So now, D.'s schedule is 9:30am -5:30pm.  I know that's like a normal daycare schedule in the States and its not like a big deal or anything, but it's just a really big deal for our family : ) 

3.  Theo is attending a new Cultural center class for the fall.  It's awesome.  Very physically active for both kids and Mommy!  (kinda like Gymboree, but more FUN)!  I would like for him to attend at least 1 more class a week, BUT with the Swine Flu epidemic here...it's just a lil scary to be going to too many 'crowed' places regularly.  Korea is so freakin' over-populated...any disease is easily spread.  I can't remember the exact statistics, but when i flew back in August and watched the news...they were saying that in a matter of a couple of weeks, the original 50 known patients to have caught Swine flu had gone to like 600+ some people!  Isn't that crazy???  And it's supposed to get worse during the Fall mths (in the US and Korea)!  ack~

4.  My BIL is getting married at the end of this month.  This is a veeeeery big deal for our family, but personally for ME as well.  For so long, i've been the ONLY DIL...and while there is pressure...it's not as much as will be come Oct.31st when i get a new "sister in law"???hmmm...actually i dunno what u call that relationship??  In korea she will be my 동서/dong-suh.  I am her Hyung-nim ~  She's actually dated my BIL for a long time and we knew they would get married eventually.  So now the time has come.  We've just been busy getting ready, getting our new hanboks made (which i am dreading wearing...it's soooo hard taking care of a baby when u have a hanbok on)...i bought a new suit (to change into after the hanbok)...normally u have to keep wearing the hanbok but i told my inlaws how uncomfortable i'd be so the FIL offered to buy that as well.  Now i just have to book my Hair&makeup person and i'm set. 

Wait a minute!  isn't Oct. 31st Halloween???  ack!

Anyway, i get along w/ my soon-to-be 동서 and hopefull it'll stay like that.  We'll see.  There is a lil past drama between Hubby and my BIL...hmmm...only time will tell.  : )  Do any of you other ladies have Hyung nims OR Dong suhs ???

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So anyways, here are some pics of the Boys this past month:

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puhahaha...D. is getting in trouble for something and so we make him do the 'old school korean time out hands raised thing'...and suddenly oneday T. went to the same spot and raised his hands too.  Kekeke~ I had to take a pic!

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On our way to Costco...i heart Costco!  BTW, i got 'Volume magic straight perm' last week.  Lord have mercy!  i haven't had straight hair for almost 5 yrs (i am NOT exaggerating)!  ever since D. turned 100 days old...i've only gotten wavy perms.  It's so weird having straight hair again ; )  I decided to go w/ the volume magic cause i don't like stick straight hair, and this particular perm has a curve at the ends~

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(A tourist attraction near our home...it's called 평화랜드/peaceland?  It's actually located reeeeeally close to the North Korea border~  a little too close for comfort?!  The train is coin-operated...so cute.  Doesn't the paddle boat look fun?)

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A quick weekend trip to the beach...both boys digging in the sand : )  It was such a nice day out!

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Hehehe...know what they're doing?  Both boys have their own Nintendo DS's !  Eventhough Theo is waaay younger than his big bro...he still wants to do whatever it is he's doing!  *sigh*  D's pretty good, but T. has no idea what he's doing ; )

 

Next time, i'll update on my crazy*ss flight back to Korea!

 


Wednesday, September 09, 2009

Freaky~

Man, this jet lag is killin' me...and while i need to do a post on our 'flight' back to the Motherland...

i wanted to share this "FREAKY" news article first : 

http://nownews.seoul.co.kr/news/newsView.php?id=20090909603008

 

This article is in Korean...so for those of you that can read it...u can see for yourselves...BUT for those of you that can't...

Well, the jist of it is....a child in China was thought to have had a disease...or very least a tumor growing inside of her stomach...but ultrasounds proved that another 'BABY' was growing inside of her!  Every once in a while u hear of similar stories, but they end up being a malformation of a twin that really won't survive OR it's just 'cells' of something that 'tried' to become of baby but was just a lump of stem cells that won't become human~

Well....this is a real baby...that is growing...and will eventually grow full term!!!  Ack~

This world is crazzzzzy

 



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